9/4/2008 - Is the marriage the grave which buries the love--two? |
Is the marriage the grave which buries the love--two?
In most recent two years, I have been investigating and considering love and this social subject of the marriage, have written many relevant articles, if " realize the love ", " the love is on the road ", " love of walking on the distance ", " love that bend over ", " speak red blue face bosom friend ", " woman two half man for all one's life ", " discuss happiness too ", " have one love, shout, bear ". These articles are issued after some emotion newspapers and periodicals, website, has caused the dispute of many readers, plagiarized in one's own blog by some net friends too. I think all the time, we must admit the marriage is the fact of the grave which is buried the love, the couple who in every case lived a long life together, that maintained their marriage is not but love but the kindred. If someone wants to keep enough permanent love and passion in the marriage, will only increase the trouble in vain. The party in the marriage sends out the sound of thirsting for the love and passion persistently, the family will backfall in the direction without tender feeling. The essence of the life is incomplete, love too, can not be satisfactory. I will know a middle aged schoolmarm of Changsha at time when Mao Zedong college of liberal arts studied in October of 2006, her husband is a professor of a key university in the provincial capital, the child studies in Tsing-Hua University. They have car have room, in others being happy one very in eyesight, but this schoolmarm lives very unhappily. In life, she has not quarrelled with the husband, but scarcely exchange, lack the skin and blindly date even more. She often complains the husband does not love her, does not care about her. But the husband takes exception to this, even more cold and detached, come home from work and always bore and study the knowledge in the study directly. Middle aged schoolmarm think of, pass by very much poverty but happy love time very, very disappointed to the existing marriage, do not dare to divorce, then have to look for the bosom friend of blue face to find sustenance as the emotion on the net. Look like the situation of this pair of couple, is very general phenomenon in modern marriage.
Human worries are often because expected value is too high. If we face the love and come into the marriage, it will turn into the fact of kindred, will reduce the expected value to the love, treat marriage life with the gentle psychology, couple treat each other with respect, get along harmoniously. Buddha says: " repair with the ship degree in a century, repair together and rest the head on and sleep in millennium " . The love is no doubt beautiful, the kindred is more valuable. It is the most important to treasure this predestination each other and treasure this family each other. Until I " have one like, shout, bear " what ending say: "Since chosen the other side finally, you have responsibility to obligated to bear the agony, loneliness brought from this and lose. Ones that should cherish one that relent, believe in constantly, the heart understanding each other admits the other side, think about the other side's advantage and advantage more, bear one more copy of responsibility of family, don't say goodbye easily unless it is absolutely necessary. Waste time with time, as you go to hoary-headed declining years together, turned one's head suddenly, originally, the human marriage just must use a satisfactory final result in the tolerant, course understood and born together. " Pet Shop,Frontline Tick,Frontline Cat,Printer Parts,Flea Medication,Flea Remedies,Wholesale Electronics,www.interiordesign-office.com
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