7/2/2009 - Use to us for today |
The financing is asked and answered ' Some) after graduating : (2)
How after unemployment the daughter's question is mainly to obtain the economic source to support the family. At present any enterprise ' Including individual enterprise) Obligated to *** for the worker " Three gold " --Social security, can apply to *** even if it is a personal freelancer. In addition, daughter and parents can *** commercial life insurance. Life insurance various in style, some insurance kind pay several years after the premium every year in person who insure, offer income people the fixed amount of money as the living allowance per month. This kind of insurance kind may solve the problem of supporting parents of the daughter supplementary and parents of unemployment money.
Chapter six Use to us for today, tomorrow to change the child?
A parents' worries (1)
--Practical guide of education financing to child-bearing
Xu Hao
Remember author study in the primary school, one tuition for term 2 yuan, book dues are 3 yuan. At that time, there were few tuition incomes in the school, educational facilities became old and lagged behind, the teacher's treatment was very low. Had spread in the society at that time " The income of professor who studies guided missile is not well paid as the granny selling the tea egg " . Then, China has begun a vigorous education " industrialization " Reform.
" education industrialization " Thinking once open,professional to become by job that make money overnight without being run by schooled, set up, teacher job on few people shows any interest in the picture hold, pay quickly originally " The gold rice bowl " . The family needn't consume, how could the child have good education? " education industrialization " " give away all one has, pay the tuition, can make a lot of money tomorrow today" Thought inculcate with give society. Meanwhile, utilize psychology that Chinese parents long to see the son succeed in life, from " preschool education " Earn.
According to the investigation, it is very expensive that some private kindergartens in Beijing charge. For example a child 3 years old boards at the nursery, hold the fee of 1080 yuan per month, there is 12960 yuan per year, should hand in 1 separately. The support of 50,000 yuan and 30,000 yuan one " The education fund " ,Parents want to pay 57960 yuan together. Get rid of " the education fund " Can return it outside after the child graduates, parents pay nearly 30,000 yuan to the kindergarten actually. It is still only a medium level that this kind charges in the private kindergarten of Beijing, have charged very high and up to 40,000-50,000 yuan for one year even more. And a university undergraduate includes tuition, living cost, annual expenses are only about ten thousand yuan, the cost of one year of the child 3 years old has exceeded university students.
The child's preschool education will be close to 100,000 yuan soon, according to this kind of standard, studying in the primary school later, middle school, university How many educational expenses will it offer to child on earth?
A new " young research " publication of sociology research institute of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences is <>. The report claims: Look from the economic cost directly, 0 to 16 years old child is raised the total cost will reach about 250,000 yuan. If estimate the expenditure of family that children received higher education, the expenses are up to 480,000 yuan. It was too unmarried to read children's total cost being raised and reaching 490,000 yuan that estimated before 30 years old. This yet including society give, school free, the Spring Festival money given to children as a lunar New year gift 50,000 to income of 60,000 yuan. According to statistics that should be studied, each of the child's pocket money and money given to children as a lunar New year gift enter the account and reach 2300 yuan in per capita year, up to 40,000 yuan. In addition 490,000 these still excluding expenditure and from pregnant withing to grow up course child of pregnant and perinatal period, parents because the child delay work, indirect economic cost developing losses by oneself of reducing and flow, is transferred and promoted etc..
The most unexpected one is the unwed children growing up while surveying and studying, there is 85% still expenditure some and even all living costs for need parents. Among them, divided by rent house (purchase the rent) Outside, the supreme expenses are to have a meal at home, extra clothes, mobile phone, surfing the Net, pocket money,etc., unexpectedly the unwed children who are not reading still use up 14,000 yuan of parents every year.
It's a pity the investigation result reveals, the economy of the family is paid and has not appeared prominently among the academic credits, psychological quality, healthy and social adaptive capacity with the child " Positive correlation " . In other words, although the economic cost invested on children is high, it is the more favorable to grow up healthy and sound to children and might not develop in an all-round way.
China is less than the country of 8000 yuan as the annual per capita national income, parents train a child's expenses to be unexpectedly up to 490,000 yuan, the latter is 61 times of the former's, this figure is incredible, even will suspect its accuracy. However, the fact is believed by you. Parents of China input in raising the child high, ordinary person difficult to imagine. The money that a middle-income family spends on child every year can be in above 10,000 yuan, higher education stage annual expenses to exceed 10,000 far even more, educational expenses become whom a lot of family can bear in weight already.
The educational expenses are so high, why will parents disregard the blood to train children? The reason is very clear, is basically all only-children now, it is each of parents' long-cherished wish to long to see the son succeed in life. There is good education, it seems that there will be a good job in the future, a lot of people think: Education is to change the only chance of child's destiny.
The and then expensive idea that will let the child study too is " education industrialization " Have offered the excellent chance of arbitrary charge. According to " China Youth News ", national the sixth national special examination result of charge from peasants of development and reform committee reveals, the arbitrary charge of the middle and primary schools becomes the main reason for aggravating peasant's burden, the amount of money of arbitrary charge of middle and primary schools of countryside accounts for half which involves in the total value of agricultural arbitrary charge. For example, the up-to-standard grade of a key middle school is 650 fen, the examinee takes an exam of 649 fen and wants to enter this school and pay 12,000 yuan more, then lack 1 fen each time, add 1000 yuan. " because teach and cause poorly " , " can not afford to read the book " Phenomenon appear in a large amount,feel even some parents it " support child not to be studied like of ********ed. Win, can bring the happiness; Fail, spend, pay one's debt all one's life soon. "
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4/29/2009 - solve language should incline country |
Teach, solve language should incline country, it lets to be merciless and too moving.
Herbaceous peony and you, in order to wait upon near, where does the lotus avoid the sweet-smelling dust?
After miserable Korea S. makes work become, let down ??'s China and cross this body.
As luck would have it, Day smoked to jade
It is a lotus. Colored shape of the color of the flower of the tree peony is gorgeous and heavy and complicated, since it is not that a lotus is constant.
In a word, mention the treasure hairpin inside the article, it seems that there is not a place that does not indicate hard, she is the first of the generally acknowledged beautiful and fragrant flowers, and the girl most beautiful in the Grand View Garden.
The treasure hairpin does not stop the appearance " Fresh and beautiful" ,Figure also " Lush " ,Can be proved with treasured jade " white Chinese flowering crabapple poem ": "Produce too real ice of bath and make the shadow, it is a soul to hold the sub jade of the west of heart. " Exactly point the treasure hairpin, point the jade of black pigment. And take pair to be struck in chance, the treasured jade is mocked and said: "No wonder they take elder sister than princess Yang, in fact the body is abundant and timid and hot too. " Get into the great anger of the treasure hairpin. The treasured jade is in the mouth " They " ,It will not be a friend or male servant naturally, first these people do not dare to discuss in the presence of the treasured jade and boudoir pavilion, second the treasured jade is said in front of not daring to get the treasure hairpin either. " they " It only may be the sisters in the garden, or the girl of the treasured jade. It is obvious treasure hairpin whether everybody has comment really privately as princess Yang.
Make and copy the dress of the treasure hairpin detailedly too in the book. Seven loopback Hua Gong, auspicious eyes of house see treasure hairpin is " dress homely garment from week, only break up and hold the hairpin on the head " . Eighth than open fairy, treasured jade go, look for treasure hairpin, see treasure hairpin do needlework, " hair hold pitch-dark glossy hairpin, honey shut color cotton-padded jacket, rose-purple two color money snow weasel gown, yellowish and green damask silk cotton skirt should to should, monochromatic and half new, look luxurious unwittingly. " Dresses such as Wang XiFeng,etc. are magnificent, the treasure hairpin is much more simple, first, stay in the boudoir waiting to be betrothed, different from young mistress' identity, it is second for stressing its " Germany " too .
But a strange one is, such a Germany's speech holds the available beauty of workers, is writing its appearance for the first time, i.e. eighth, use " lip but red a bit, eyebrow it draws to be but green; The face is like the silver basin, one is like water apricot " . Finish seeing these four sentences, will be produced a kind of feeling lost. Beautiful? Beauty. But vulgar. Such a description, the result produced is to lower the grade of the beauty of the treasure hairpin.
It is in the 28th time to exert oneself and portray to the treasure hairpin appearance again " Xue treasure hairpin shy cage red musk deer bunch " . Selected the treasure hairpin definitely as the wife in the future of treasured jade in such special way in a spring. Still Meng is too right to examine on the treasured jade, only think of seeing her red musk deer bunch. "One bunch of cages on the left wrist treasure hairpins, see the treasured jade ask him, can not do without taking off as luck would have it. The abundant pool of skin that the treasure hairpin grows, easy to take off. Treasured jade in by watch it is the white arm more in each,last heart that envy unwittingly Remember ' gold and jade ' matter come, see treasure hairpin describe, face like the silver basin, one was like ink apricots and then suddenly, lip but red a bit, eyebrow does not it draws to be but green, have another than black pigment jade kind charming and distinguished and admirable " .
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3/26/2009 - I am in several |
I am in several decades on the post at present, it seems that only there is no watch in two New Year's Eves, one to make stomach trouble in hospital, one ankle fracture. Spend in the hospital the others without exception in more than ten years, always on duty sometimes, work overtime sometimes. I was always the omission while eating the hogmanay dinner, the family has already been accustomed to.
Not on duty on New Year's Eve of this year. I am old to lead Gu Nian, mix the young partner.
Say that non- on duty, annual 30 has been busy for a whole day, wait until everything is all dealt with, it is over seven o'clock in the evening. Remove the prohibition and allow to set off Beijing of second year of the fireworks firecracker, a burst of of report, fireworks are numerous and complicated; The long street of the garage, the whole town turns out. In the strong the smell of gunpowder, it seems to a little wait the feeling of celebrating the New Year hour.
During the last ten years, passed on New Year's Eve with old mother for the first time, the first time and family's looks kept watch at night with each other, see for the first time " Spring night " Needn't wait for replay, eat the dumpling chartered by oneself to celebrate the New Year for the first time Sit with mother to see in front of the television " Spring night " ,Listen to the husband playing one pot of bowl wooden dipper spoon symphonies in the kitchen, such a scene has not been really seen for ages!
On duty in New Year's Eve in this year, but I forget in the past on duty day, the thing that shouldn't take place that witness. More than ten New Year's Eves, add up to thousands of people and is wounded by the fireworks firecracker, among them the majority is the teenagers, paid the painful cost for the happiness for the moment, someone lost brightness even life from then on. For this reason, on every the Spring Festival, I will warn relatives and friends again and again, set off the fireworks firecracker, this safe string must be tightened! In instigate,sometimes think look like by Xiang Linsao just by oneself.
Not on duty on New Year's Eve of this year, eat dumplings, watch TV, have a chat on great day But the firecracker sound of a period of time passes listening to outside the window closely in a period of time, this of mine can not be put down in the heart. The expert organizing the hospital before festival is the news briefing, also carry on the health education; The broadcast, TV, newspapers and periodicals go on writing for pages and pages, remind citizens, especially teenagers repeatedly, it is not the inferior fireworks firecracker of the commercial networks to ***; Mustn't set off or do things creatively and set off the fireworks after drinking; Mustn't set off the large-scale fireworks display to play without authorization Spending the first day has 15, I wonder whether those favour celebrates the New Year, prepares to well happy young people and listens?
Really meet trouble halfway. Several decades, I think one's own New Year's Eve complex already alienation.
On this New Year's Eve not on duty, I hope all people can pass for a safe, happy, happy and auspicious lunar New Year's Eve; I hope, it wounds to be lunar New Year's Day every media fall over each other a disharmonious news of the report again fireworks New Year's Eve.
If like that, my partners would not keep in the hospital on the Spring Festival every year like me.
Picture: Father has left, mother is old, extremely treasure the time accompanying mother to stay up late of all night on New Year's Eve.
Happy from " The heart " At the beginning (1)
The society measures mood, management mood, builds the good heart environment, will undoubtedly promote your cultural life quality. That key which opens the happy door, in fact just in your one's own hand.
Do you laugh heartily today? Do you feel happy today? If you often answer by denying, then your mood needs care well.
What is the mood? The body temperature can be measured with the thermometer, the weight can be measured with the platform scale, blood pressure, vital capacity can be measured with the instrument too. Then, people " The mood " Is that all right to measure?
The room is dirty can sweep, the things are messy can tidy up, and the mood? If you have felt blue recently, put it in order carefully by way?
Friend on it is dear, come discuss on the today we about " The mood " .
Draw one for oneself " The mood table " .
Talk about " The mood " ,People think that one thing that see, feel, what kind when have one " The mood " ,I'm afraid only you know oneself.
But how is you could to own one " The mood " Is there concrete understanding, in order to manage it attentively? Don't worry, we study this kind of method together now.
Draw support from the spectrum of physics, concept of the spectrum and chromatogram, we suppose there is such one human mood " The table " ,And can write down it to study.
OK, we will begin to take action soon. Please prepare a piece of blank sheet of paper and a pencil, examine your mood.
First of all, draw a straight line on the blank sheet of paper with the pencil, as what we drew as a child " The number axis " . Then draw 10 scales on the straight line on average from left to right, write the figure of 1 to 10 separately.
Then, describe with the vocabulary that we are familiar with the bad mood which you think: Agony, sorrow, grief, resentfulness, depressed, agitated, or gloomy? While and then generally expressing the mood by saming means: Numb, flat and insipid, dull, or quiet? Finally, let us have one's heart filled with and hope, imagine the good mood that you expect: Gratified, satisfy, make joyful, feel grateful, excited, and even the happiness?
Please think from these vocabularies or you that select 10 in the vocabulary suitable, with understanding of you, one that is according to mood from low to high to arrange in various degree, mark under the corresponding digital scale. Such as Fig.:
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2/15/2009 - In the course of talking |
In the High pressure pumps Piston Pumps Metering Pumps course of talking, the position of sight moves the situation differently, the personal psychology reflected is different too. Watched the
person shifting the sight at once attentively by others, the psychology is very strong that mostly feel self-humiliation, the people dare to face up
to the other side either. Will produce this kind of phenomenon generally speaking, when a heart feels ashamed and regretful or has bad personal
secrets. It is unable to concentrate the sight on the other side's body, and regain the persons of the sight quickly, mostly introversive personalities,
not good at communication.
American psychologist Richard? The department has done such an experiment then: He lets to suffer from the intensity " Self-closing disease "
Children meet as strange adult,in order to observe by this the childrens it face by adult the times of the eyeses; The adult's eyes are divided and
covered with with two kinds of situations that are not covered with. Act as Richard? When the department compares the resulting experimental
result under two kinds of situations then, find children gaze at the former's time, it is 3 times of the latter's. In other words, a contact of eyes of
both sides, children will remove the sight at once. Therefore can know, introverted person is mostly unable to have gazed at the other side all the
time; High pressure pumps Piston Pumps Metering Pumps The export-oriented person is opposite.
While talking with others, obedient people shift the sight ceaselessly, constantly look at other things, indicate obedient people are not interested
in the speaker's topic; If the other side takes the well-meaning smile, meet and shut with your sight frequently in sight, show he very interested in
to what that you say, expect you continue speaking.
In associating, if face the opposite sex, only look at it at one glance, remove the persons of the sight on purpose, mostly because of having strong
interests to the other side. For example at bus, come up one young looks beautiful girl, all people's eyes nearly can concentrate on her body; But
young men can often sprain the face soon to on one side. Though they are very much interested in, are constrained and produced the behavior
of making by oneself on the basis of strong heart. But making by oneself will make the interest desire increase instead, at this moment, they will
steal a glance at with strabismus. This because want to see the other side clearly, but unwilling to let the other side know the cause of one's own
attention.
In addition, the inferior guest of the anthropologist? Show tallly and gracefully through studying: Take a fancy to at one glance to opposite sex,
close eyes, that is first kind " I believe you, not afraid of you " Figure language. So, when seeing the opposite sex, do not remove the sight, after
closing the eyes, turn over the eyes and look again, so repeated, the behavior respected and trusted. Especially act as such women while seeing
men, can think it possible to associate.
Section 33: Ninth, hint opportunity (6) of good opinion
3,See people from the concentration degree of the sight
In talking with the other side, are gazing at and talking people constantly, seem comparatively honest; But don't stare at the other side fixedly
from start to finish, in case that the other side misunderstands.
If somebody want, set up good tacit understanding with others, have percent sixty or seventy time watch the other side attentively; The position
watched attentively is two and triangular area between the mouth, in this way the biography of information is connected, will usually be
understood correctly and effectively.
If somebody hopes to leave deeper impression on the other side, will stare into the other side's eyes for a long time, and contain the emotion in
the sight that is watched attentively. While disputing with the other side a question, want to win oneself, that must stare at the other side's sight
fixedly closely.
While listening to others speaking, nod, but does not concentrate the sight on talker's body, show that is not interested in the speaker or said
topic, want to prevent the other side from going on.
While listening to the other side speaking, concentrate the sight on the other side's eye and face, is the sincere listening, show that respects and
understands. Meet and talk for the first time, non- centralized sight person, the personality comparatively takes the initiative; On the contrary, the
person that took to heart because of the other side's centralized sight, liking being counted diligently, thought the other side was discontended
with oneself, or and can't get along well by oneself.
In a word, in general cases, it is very difficult for people to conceal the worry completely, even if someone shows a face without expression, but a
painstaking one can not keep it for a long time while being artificial. So long as you keep a close eye on the change of his sight, can find his secret
of the bottom of heart. The movements of expression in one's eyes always spread the scheming secretly. Mencius thinks, observes people's eyes,
can know people's good and evil. He says: "The person who stores people is don't good on the pupil. The pupil can't cover its evil, in the heart,
then pupil 2t; Not in the heart, then pupil ąg. Listen to its temple of speech of its pupils, people's place is thin. " Really reasonable.
Medical to discover: Eyes are the extension in the eye socket of brain, there are tertiary neurons on the eyeball bottom, just like cerebral cortex
cell, analyze integration capabilities. So, eyes are the sharpest in five kinds of sense organs of people's, probably accounts for more than 70%
which feel the field. And activities such as the change of pupil, pace and direction that the eyeball rotates,etc., subject to the domination of cranial
nerve directly, in addition, one of the eyelid is shut, a series of movements such as the cooperation of the eyes and head movement, people's
emotion is reflected from eyes naturally, and the information which it reveal is truer than the words and deeds.
So, as obedient people, you should not only observe and talk the change of expression in one's eyes of the other side, still should pay attention to
one's Pet Shop Frontline Tick Frontline Cat own expression of expression in one's eyes. As a listener, should pay attention to attracting the other side with the expression in one's eyes:
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12/30/2008 - After the dust sand leaves |
Carriage advance still, she want think no even push the bamboo screen or curtain aside, until seeing that familiar side face, she really fits the lower heart.
Turn round and look at her whitely at one glance in conformity with the peak, see the expression that she heaves a sigh of relief, can't help smiling slightly.
"Go front to sit for a while? "
"Sure. " She mentions skirts are put, steps forward carefully. White to control in conformity with peak halter let horse lay pace slowly, support she reach seat around sit down on the other hand on one hand.
Will it be day autumn in the afternoon, nice and cool breeze, arrange, turn on that copy make her extremely uncomfortable palpitation, she showed a smile at last.
"What happened to just now, why is face so bad? " Except in the inn overnight, they nearly never left the other side's sight day and night, as to the delicate change of her mood, how may he neglect.
"It doesn't matter, just a little uncomfortable, feel that seems to happen if there is something, a little afraid. " Her honest palpitation just now of description.
White in conformity with peak anything, shoulder to gather up her let she close to any him, and what Qin RuoYu submitted to very much depends on him. The tacit understanding between two people is sheer.
But situation think Qin good fortune everybody in behind in the eyes, " wrong " really like this Very much, but they do not want to waste the words to admonish again either, because that is of no use thoroughly, have to continue move to keep watch on them in order to expression in one's eyes that does not agree to.
One people continue, advance by direction of mountain villa medicines and stone needles, walk, have several just, in not far from their the front, the numerous and dsiorderly and eager hoofbeat comes, just spirit, the hoarse song of reining in the horse sounded in front of them suddenly, raise the dust sand getting up with getting up all over the sky too.
Push the bamboo screen or curtain behind aside whitely in time in conformity with the peak, has avoided the wreaking havoc of dust sand embracing her into people's carriage, good fortune Qin,et al. have a good luck.
"Cough, cough What is the matter? " Qin Fu can not speak suitably even words.
After the dust sand leaves, three man and others who is riding the horse. Push the bamboo screen or curtain aside whitely in conformity with the peak, Qin RuoYu's face comes to light at the same time.
"Qin RuoYu! " Five see the appearance that he can never recognize by mistake, utter a sound first immediately, fly and appear at once since, want, reseize Qin if rain, let white to block back in conformity with the peak.
Wu Ke stands up and falls, narrows and has in mind, it is white in conformity with the peak to recognize, and the Qin 's cube have been enclosed over.
"Who are you? What does young lady of home do to want at us? "
"Are you persons in the mountain villa of medicines and stone needles? "
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10/3/2008 - The friendship will not come down from the Heaven |
The friendship will not come down from the Heaven
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A lot of people thought once people could sit at home enjoying easily after being rich, needn't be so arduous as to work again. In fact, in fact not after most people are rich, just find like this one's own life is busier, there are more things worried about. This self-made rich man is so, he often supervises oneself and be unable to relax, the result rotates ceaselessly just like a top every day.
So busy and tense life really lets him feel agony, he often wants to look for a friend to pour out the distress in one's own heart. But where on the field of business there is a real friend, the experience for many years tells him not to be by regarding those people as a friend easily; Staff of company, see him either fear or fawn on, what friends does it have still more; Perhaps could find the real friend only after the work. But in life, this rich man does not have a bosom friend who can talk of everything under the sun especially. Because throughout the year busy, he even have time to fall in love almost, in one's thirties to marry yet. Because just too busy too, the classmate, friend in the past have already lost the connection. The neighbour has some, but the rich man thinks the urban petty bourgeoises of those neighbour angry and too serious, do not consider worth doing making friends with them with one's own identity.
In fact, the rich man is equivalent to relation place between the neighbours and terrible. He dislikes and avoids the neighbours for being short-sighted, occupied with nothing. The neighbours think he is overly swollen with arrogance, looks down upon everybody, and think him selfish, does not know and consider for others, the neighbours think the rich man justified like this, the rich man often comes in and goes out driving the famous-brand car, has never reduced the pace while entering the street lane, even the same in the rainy day; The big wolfhound that he raised often shows the terrible sharp tooth about the child of the neighbour's; When the neighbour runs into him, he always knits one's brows, a face of board; When he sees the child of the neighbour's wants to stroke his car, he always berates the child roughly
The rich man lives among the neighbours so richly and alone.
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It is wronged for him to feel, think neighbour to be unnatural, he get friendship and agony for oneself too at the same time. One day, when he read the magazine at home, found a word like this: If you want to reap the tree of the friendship, must plant the wholehearted seed, need cultivating diligently, and the devotion needing to accumulate over a long period.
The rich man realizes the truth suddenly, then, he wrinkles the urgent brow and begins to unfold, there is a smile on the face, he will take them to go for a drive by car voluntarily to see the children of the neighbour's, the big wolfhound that he raised is fastened to the corner of the own courtyard by a stalwart iron chain, when he entered the street lane by car, he will reduce the pace voluntarily, decelerates in the rainy day especially
Bank examine, over finally, company of him resume, turn round, and he enjoy including neighbour a lot of people of care and considerations too when being busy.
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9/4/2008 - Is the marriage the grave which buries the love--two? |
Is the marriage the grave which buries the love--two?
In most recent two years, I have been investigating and considering love and this social subject of the marriage, have written many relevant articles, if " realize the love ", " the love is on the road ", " love of walking on the distance ", " love that bend over ", " speak red blue face bosom friend ", " woman two half man for all one's life ", " discuss happiness too ", " have one love, shout, bear ". These articles are issued after some emotion newspapers and periodicals, website, has caused the dispute of many readers, plagiarized in one's own blog by some net friends too. I think all the time, we must admit the marriage is the fact of the grave which is buried the love, the couple who in every case lived a long life together, that maintained their marriage is not but love but the kindred. If someone wants to keep enough permanent love and passion in the marriage, will only increase the trouble in vain. The party in the marriage sends out the sound of thirsting for the love and passion persistently, the family will backfall in the direction without tender feeling. The essence of the life is incomplete, love too, can not be satisfactory. I will know a middle aged schoolmarm of Changsha at time when Mao Zedong college of liberal arts studied in October of 2006, her husband is a professor of a key university in the provincial capital, the child studies in Tsing-Hua University. They have car have room, in others being happy one very in eyesight, but this schoolmarm lives very unhappily. In life, she has not quarrelled with the husband, but scarcely exchange, lack the skin and blindly date even more. She often complains the husband does not love her, does not care about her. But the husband takes exception to this, even more cold and detached, come home from work and always bore and study the knowledge in the study directly. Middle aged schoolmarm think of, pass by very much poverty but happy love time very, very disappointed to the existing marriage, do not dare to divorce, then have to look for the bosom friend of blue face to find sustenance as the emotion on the net. Look like the situation of this pair of couple, is very general phenomenon in modern marriage.
Human worries are often because expected value is too high. If we face the love and come into the marriage, it will turn into the fact of kindred, will reduce the expected value to the love, treat marriage life with the gentle psychology, couple treat each other with respect, get along harmoniously. Buddha says: " repair with the ship degree in a century, repair together and rest the head on and sleep in millennium " . The love is no doubt beautiful, the kindred is more valuable. It is the most important to treasure this predestination each other and treasure this family each other. Until I " have one like, shout, bear " what ending say: "Since chosen the other side finally, you have responsibility to obligated to bear the agony, loneliness brought from this and lose. Ones that should cherish one that relent, believe in constantly, the heart understanding each other admits the other side, think about the other side's advantage and advantage more, bear one more copy of responsibility of family, don't say goodbye easily unless it is absolutely necessary. Waste time with time, as you go to hoary-headed declining years together, turned one's head suddenly, originally, the human marriage just must use a satisfactory final result in the tolerant, course understood and born together. " Pet Shop,Frontline Tick,Frontline Cat,Printer Parts,Flea Medication,Flea Remedies,Wholesale Electronics,www.interiordesign-office.com
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12/27/2007 - Electric apparatus performance of the connector |
Electric apparatus performance of the connector
2.The main electric performance of the electric performance connector includes being exposed to resistance, insulating resistance and resist the electric intensity.
The electric connector exposed to the high quality of the resistance should have low and steady contact resistance. The contact resistance of the connector ranges from several milliohms to several dozen milliohms.
And the Terminal block index of contacting one and insulating ability between the outer covers that the insulating resistance weighs the electric connector while exposed to oning, its order of magnitude is from several hundred trillion Europe to Europe of several gigas.
Resist the electric intensity or call and is able to bear the voltage, medium able to bear pressinging, signify the connector while contacting one or is exposed to one with ability of testing the voltage of tolerance amount between the outer covers.
Other electric performance.
It is that the electromagnetism of appraising the connector interferes with shielding the result to interfere with letting out decaying electromagnetically, it is that the electromagnetism of appraising the connector interferes with shielding the result to interfere with letting out decaying electromagnetically, generally the test in 100MHz general 10GHz frequency range.
As to Surge Arrester coaxial connector of the radio frequency, there is impedance of characteristic, meddle in lossing, reflection coefficient, voltage stay Bob (VSWR) Wait for the electric index. Because of the development of digital technology, in order to join and transmit the digital pulse signal of the high speed, a kind of new connector i.e. high-speed signal connector have appeared, accordingly, in electric performance, besides impedance of characteristic, some new electric indexes have appeared, if bunch is disturbed (crosstalk) ,Transmit the delay (delay) , the lag time (skew) When.
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